Super Awesome

From the most super awesome person in the entire world, tying only with Mommy

[20:06] Neeks Karu: grown ups need different things than children
[20:07] Kala Pixie: what do children need?
[20:07] Neeks Karu: love, comfort, protection, guidence, boundries
[20:09] Kala Pixie: boundaries?
[20:09] Neeks Karu: limits to what they can do till they can cope with the resposability/ consequenses
[20:10] Kala Pixie: guidance?
[20:11] Neeks Karu: assistance with choices.. right from wrong.. experiences to draw from
[20:11] Kala Pixie: protection?
[20:12] Neeks Karu: from the bad things/ppl in the world to some extent, the ugliness
[20:12] Kala Pixie: comfort?
[20:12] Neeks Karu: someone to wipe your tears
[20:12] Neeks Karu: bandage a cut knee
[20:13] Neeks Karu: cuddles after a nightmare
[20:13] Kala Pixie: love?
[20:13] Neeks Karu: the affection, bond that ties together, feelling that makes you want to be everything else to another
[20:13] Kala Pixie: what do grown ups need?
[20:15] Neeks Karu: the same... but there are other needs too, way to be emotionally closer
[20:15] Kala Pixie: what are other needs?\
[20:16] Neeks Karu: feet to be massaged
[20:16] Neeks Karu: toenails to be cut
[20:18] Kala Pixie: is all?
[20:18] Neeks Karu: hehehe
[20:18] Kala Pixie: I think
[20:18] Kala Pixie: of all of the needs we need
[20:18] Kala Pixie: that
[20:19] Kala Pixie: comfort, boundaries, guidance, protection, and to some extent, love
[20:19] Kala Pixie: are all things I've never had
[20:19] Kala Pixie: I've never had someone to bandage my knee or cuddle me after a nightmare
[20:19] Kala Pixie: or
[20:19] Neeks Karu: to me.. even tho I love my kids dearly.. Parenting is still a job
[20:20] Kala Pixie: ever had limits on what I could or can't do
[20:20] Neeks Karu: my job is to turn out function adults
[20:20] Kala Pixie: and I've never had someone tell me right from wrong, or protect me from the bad world
[20:20] Kala Pixie: only will, you, mommy, and a couple others, have ever really loved me
[20:20] Kala Pixie: so
[20:20] Kala Pixie: All of the needs I need
[20:20] Kala Pixie: I've never had
[20:21] Neeks Karu: and thats a real shame.. every child should be given those
[20:22] Kala Pixie: I just wish that I had those things when I was really small physically...is would of helped a lot.